Whip cream and vanilla sugar until stiff. Stir sour cream until smooth and fold in. Season to taste with sugar, lime or lemon juice and possibly coconut liqueur
Drain the apricots on a sieve, collecting the juice. Cut 4 apricot halves into slices. Puree the remaining apricots and 3 tbsp. juice. Fold in the sliced apricots
Fill cream and apricot sauce into glasses and chill for about 30 minutes. Roast the grated coconut in a dry pan while turning until golden brown. Let cool off. Sprinkle dessert with coconut flakes. Decorate with slices of lime and lemon balm as desired